善于发现微小幸福

     没有太大野心

           对负面情绪的钝感力

                 适当放低生活标准

                       容易发现事物好的一面

                            选择喜欢的职业

                                 抗压力耐打击

                                      随时随地发泄压力

                                            感恩的心态

                                            张弛有度的生活节奏

                                      相互赞美的心态

                                 对生活充满热情的阳光天性

                            适当健忘的头脑

                       善于自嘲

                  适当YY

             八小时外所有寄托

       嘴角习惯性上扬15度

拥有丰富的内涵

中国最后以0:3输给了乌兹别克,真的是很失望,不过还是会继续支持他们的,啥也不说了,其实他们也不容易.

昨晚中国对伊朗的比赛有些遗憾,上半场比较完美,2:0,可惜到了下半场伊朗的进攻太强势了,中国队有点吃不消了,最后以2:2结束了比赛(幸好平了,当时特别紧张).郑治和李玮峰由于吃了两张黄牌,下场对乌兹别克停赛,不知道下场结果会怎样，期待ing,希望他们能克服困难,走到最后,竭尽全力.

我想昨晚中国对马来西亚的那场比赛很多人看完都会很兴奋吧,5:1的好成绩,来了个开门红,开始看时我还相当紧张来着呢.

不知道这次的亚洲杯中国队会取得什么成绩,不过无论结果如何,我都会一如既往的支持下去的,尽管他们让我有过失望,但我想做为一个中国人,我就要支持他们,如果连我们都不支持他们的话,那别人又怎么能看得起他们呢?

昨晚红楼终于有了结果,宝钗和黛玉都有了人选,宝钗的姚迪从开始就看好她,黛玉就不那么称心了,虽说旭丹的气质不错,可是感觉少了些灵气,如果她的气质加上春晓的灵气那就perfect了.而宝玉的人选干脆就待定,这样也好,我们的方文还是有那么一点希望的.不过现在也不那么期待了,因为只要是金子,在哪里都是发光的,祝福你,方文,加油!加油!

昨晚的宝黛钗四进三，方文复活了，很高兴，可是最后又被淘汰了，真是的，我觉得跟他ＰＫ的徐根本就不如他，可是怎么有那么多人给徐投票呢，而且最后关键的一票邓婕也投给了他，气死我了，为方文惋惜，为红楼选秀节目组惋惜，那么优秀的一个人才就这么擦肩而过了，方文与宝玉无缘了，我想最后那一刻看到方文那难过的表情留下眼泪的一定会大有人在．我是第二次为他流泪了，上周他淘汰，这周复活又淘汰，让人看着真是太郁闷了．哎．．．．．．

终于把这段时间看的日剧和韩剧更新完了，累的我胳膊疼．

接着看，看，看．真好．

最近看了一个日剧，叫唯爱，很久没有让我感动的剧了，不错，希望喜欢看日剧的朋友们看一下，如果我是个男孩子，我也会喜欢那个女主角的，^_^。

我很傻，我是个傻瓜

现在已后悔莫及了，无法找回了

以后都见不到你，其实我知道

都是我的错，真的很抱歉

当时没能说出来，我真的很傻，如今我才后悔，请你原谅

你我都很傻

就因为那渺小的自尊

在迷恋当中一天天荒废

你我都很傻

因为还爱着对方，我一整天痛哭着

你我都像傻瓜一样

如今我才后悔，请你原谅我

别这样

到这地步也不容易

 

昨天看了一部叫做蝴蝶效应的电影,它有两部,因为怕直接看第二部看不懂,所以把第一部也看了.看完觉得不错,推荐大家有时间可以看看,剧中的主人公有失忆症,但又可以通过看原来的照片回到原来改变现在的状态.挺羡慕这种病,呵呵,可是他因为总不满足现状就总强迫自己回到过去,最后在过去的一场事故中为了救他心爱的女人出了车祸.也许这种结局是好的,因为他的死带给了他爱的人们的幸福,但是我觉得这部电影主要讲的是人不能要求的过于完美,那也是不可能的,所以顺其自然就好了,一切顺其自然.因为对蝴蝶效应这个词比较感兴趣,所以上网查了一下有关资料,大家感兴趣可以看一下.以下是网上查到的:

 

 

 

金莱沅--饰金贤宇　　金泰熙--饰李秀茵
李廷镇--饰洪政敏　　金　玟--饰柳珍雅
姜男吉--饰吴英载　　郑松姬--饰韩智慧

 

 

 

 

池　成--饰姜贤宇
EUGENE--饰池恩秀
刘秀荣--饰郑太民
李宝英--饰尹秀珍

 

 

 

   尹恩惠--饰申彩景
　周池勋--饰李　信
　宋智孝--饰闽孝琳
　金正勋--饰李　律

 

 

 

 

           高贤贞--饰高秉熙
　　　　千正明--饰朴哲洙
　　　　赵延宇--饰裴熙明
　　　　金恩珠--饰高俊熙
　　　　孙贤珠--饰朴秉阁

 

 

 

　　　　吴志浩--饰张哲秀
　　　　韩艺瑟--饰赵安娜
　　　　金盛民--饰朴比利
　　　　朴寒星--饰吴柔静

 

 

 

  韩彩英--饰成春香
　在　熙--饰李梦龙
　严泰雄--饰卞学道
　朴诗恩--饰洪彩琳

 

 

 

 

           玄　彬--饰韩泰雄、韩德邱
　　　　成宥利--饰金宝拉
　　　　任柱焕--饰徐健宇
　　　　柳仁英--饰李承利

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

向大家汇报一下,最近在看<甜蜜间谍>,疑团重重.让你看了还想看,呵呵.

过几天看完了会在韩剧攻略里面详细介绍的.

 

 

火影一个星期出一集,男朋友觉得太慢,就在等待的过程中自己写了个后续,贴来让大家看看,多提宝贵意见哦!呵呵....

 

有生之年 有生之年狭路相逢终不能幸免手心忽然长出纠缠的曲线

他们坐在喧闹的会场。他以第一名的成绩从忍者学校毕业，他是宇智波家唯一的幸存者、木叶的天才，女孩子心目中的白马王子。身边的女生满脸通红眼神闪闪发亮，背后传来阵阵尖叫，他只是觉得太吵，用手挡掉一半的表情，眼睛笔直看着前方。他一向是吊车尾的最后一刻才拿到木叶护额，他体内封印着妖狐从小一个人长大喜欢恶作剧耍白痴。他看到心爱的女生冲别人尖叫，不甘心地冲上去凑热闹，可是刚刚还一脸娇羞的女孩立刻火冒三丈转过身来对着他就是一顿海扁。他直扑到他面前几乎跟他脸贴着脸狠狠地对瞪。接下来发生的事是个意外。嘴唇软软相触的瞬间，四只眼睛都睁得大大的，正好看清彼此眼中自己的倒影。然后会场里一片沉默，直到有女孩开始尖叫。谁推我，他惨叫。白痴，他带着微愠转过头去。那一年他们十二岁。宇智波佐助，旋涡鸣人和春野樱从忍者学校毕业，编入卡卡西带领的第七小队。 一起吃。他向被绑树上的人递出手中的便当。可是佐助，卡卡西老师说……小樱睁大眼睛，佐助面无表情。鸣人呆呆地看着他乌黑的眼睛，说不出话来。他们终于成为卡卡西老师所带的第一批合格下忍。几个月之后，在波之国，佐助倒在鸣人怀里浑身是血，身上插满的千本让他看起来像只刺猬。还没有杀死那个男人，我怎么能这样死了，他满脸痛苦和不甘。然后鸣人只听到白的声音，为了保护自己重要的人，他明知是陷阱还是冲了过来。他突然觉得绝望，于是不知名的力量开始汇聚，生平第一次，连鸣人自己都觉得自己不可思议地强大。那一年，他们十三岁。第一次执行A级任务，大家都活了下来。 那个男人终于出现。他说要九尾，然后轻松击倒卡卡西追着鸣人的脚步而去。鼬，佐助咬着牙拼命按捺过速的心跳，跑遍镇上每一间客栈。可那个男人说，我现在对你没兴趣。愤怒的情绪混入不甘，他本来想守护的心情突然有了一丝丝嫉妒。他握紧了拳头冲上去，然后被打得遍体鳞伤。最后他困在月读的世界，顺着墙壁软软地倒下去，那一刻他在心里冷笑，你只是要我变强，是不是说，不择手段也可以。后来终于他下了决心，他冷冷地说我早就想和你一战了，然后在医院的天台上和曾经想保护的人大打出手；他在背后低声地说谢谢，然后毅然决然转身离开再也不曾回头。就算是被背叛鸣人也不想放手，他还记得中忍考试的时候他说我知道失去一切的滋味，我不想再失去重要的朋友。佐助不知道自己那句话给了他多大的力量，但是他知道。他用苦无向自己的掌心狠狠划下，追上去说就算折断你的手脚我也要带你回去。然后螺旋丸对上千鸟在空中激出眩目的光芒。佐助说你是我最亲的朋友所以有牺牲的价值。心底里有个声音苦笑着低语，鸣人，我已经死过一次了。最后一次光芒中两人闭上了眼睛。他睁开时他还没有。佐助用力地靠过去，低下头，一生中第一次也是最后一次，他睁大眼睛用力看着鸣人的脸，眼神清澈。他想把这个画面记在心里，然后再也不忘记。有了伤痕的护额啪地一声掉落，他吐出一口鲜血，转身离去。然后两颗心咫尺天涯，再也无法那么靠近。很多年以后鸣人看着自己的掌心，那时的苦无留下的伤痕固执地不肯褪去，细长的一道仿佛是一个什么证明，横亘在那时少年的心里。那一年，他们十四岁。木叶少了一个天才的下忍，大蛇丸那里多了一个。 鸣人从不放弃相信佐助一定会回来，可是佐助却不知何时才是归期。于是他追，他逃，两个人无数次错身而过却始终没有任何交集，彼此都不知道对方的经历。一别六年。再次见面的时候鸣人是木叶暗部的高层，穿着黑色的长袍带着狐狸面具。佐助浑身是血倒在木叶的村口，眼里的和以前一模一样的血红色还不曾褪去，终究他还是未能使用万华镜写轮眼。鸣人唯一的欢迎就是冲上前去给佐助狠狠的一拳，然后佐助疲惫但是平静地闭上了眼睛，他知道眼前的人是谁。 到最后佐助也不肯说到底发生过什么事，即使是五代目火影的追问他也是一样简单地说大蛇丸和鼬都死了，没有再多一个字。鸣人也不问。就算他不说也罢。能够杀了大蛇丸和鼬的佐助愿意回来木叶自然欢迎，毕竟他当年的行为实在构不成背叛。他只是离开，然后在长达六年的时间里不肯回来。于是佐助顺利地加入暗部，并在极短的时间内进入高层与鸣人共事。他们像以前一样相处，工作的时候配合默契，是暗部最好的小组也是木叶忍者里最深不可测的两个。但是鸣人不再老找碴，佐助也不再骂他白痴。那一年，他们二十岁。佐助回到了木叶。鸣人依然喜欢吃拉面但不再像以前一样恶作剧。 暗部的高层一直找佐助谈话要他快点成婚，毕竟写轮眼的血统要传下去就只有靠佐助。暗部的标志里就有宇智波家的家徽啊，有一天谈话的时候冒出这样的声音。佐助黑袍下的身体蓦的僵硬，隔着面具没人看到他当时的表情。然后他点了头。小樱出落得越发漂亮了。以前她也偶而到暗部来看看鸣人，但从佐助回来之后她就来得更加频繁了。后来有一天她从暗部出来的时候红着脸，幸福的表情满满地溢出来。第二天整个木叶都知道了春野樱接受了宇智波佐助的求婚。婚礼也很快就举行了。那天小樱笑得很多，幸福得让人嫉妒。佐助仍然很少表情，他远远地看见鸣人在角落里一个人喝酒，后来冲上来醉熏熏地跟他说，你要好好对小樱。他拂开鸣人的手皱着眉头，你不能喝就少喝点，白痴。然后两个人相对发呆，有多久，没有对鸣人说过这样的话，又有多久，没听过佐助讲这样的话。后来人群起哄的声音唤回两人，他们同时转身，佐助走向小樱，鸣人回到角落。那一年，他们二十一岁。整个木叶的人都知道，小樱嫁人了。鸣人和李洛克彻底失恋，那一天他们俩个喝得烂醉，抱在一起互相安慰。

又要转载了,不过这次是我喜欢的一个艺人的一段非常感人的故事:

 

A few days before I was on the phone with Leehom, I had actually spared time to go meet his friend from college, Stefan.我们先聊了很多力宏大学的事。也许是我做的那些功课，也同样唤起他许多大学时期的美好回忆，我们越聊越开心，我觉得我的诚恳和努力，已经赢得他的信任了。 We talked about many things that happened to Leehom in college. And probably as a result of this homework I was doing, he was able to recall many good memories from college, the more we talked, the happier we became, and I think because of my sincerity and diligence, I had also won his trust. “其实我最难了解的，就是力宏的爱情。他好象从来不愿意谈他的感情生活。难道他在感情上受过创伤？”我很诚恳地问，希望他能帮忙解开这个迷。 "Actually, the thing I have most difficulty understanding, is Leehom's love-life. He never seemed willing to speak about it. Is it cause he has been wounded by love before?" I asked very sincerely, hoping that Stefan would be able to help me from this confusion. “创伤？应该不算吧。感情的事本来就勉强不来……，但我知道他真心爱过一个女孩，也曾深深为她伤心过。”他想了想，又说：“力宏是我所见过的男孩子中，最痴情的一个，他的感情，是非常集中而专一的。”然后他摇摇头，“那场Long-distanced的恋爱，也可以一谈谈五年……，他们其实非常相爱，但最后还是选择分手，我们都非常替他们可惜……” "Wounded? I don't think it was like that. You can't ever force love between a couple......, but I know he truly loved that one girl, and was once deeply hurt by her." he thought for a moment, and said, "Out of all the guys I have met, Leehom is the most dedicated[attached] lover, his love, was extremely focused[intense] and loyal." Then he shook his head, "That long distance relationship, went for five years......, they actually really loved each other, but in the end, they still chose to breakup, we all felt what a great pity it was for them......." “他们怎么认识的？”我问。 "How did they meet each other? I asked. “我们都是Williams的同学，大一的时候一起选修中文而认识的。其实她比我们大一届，他是中美混血，但不会说中文。”他回想着，微笑出来 "We were classmates in Williams College. In first year, we all chose to study chinese and thus met. Actually she was from the year above us, she was a half asian, half american, but couldn't speak chinese." He smiled slightly, as he recalled. “一开始我就看出来，力宏很喜欢她。她很漂亮，又有点顽皮，特别喜欢作弄力宏，后来我们熟了之后，她才告诉我，她原来对中文没什么兴趣，因为知道力宏在学中文，所以，她也兴起了学中文的念头。” "From the beginning I could see that Leehom really liked her. She was very beautiful, and was a bit mischievous, and especially liked to tease[play] with Leehom. Afterwards when we knew each other better, she told me that she has no interest in learning chinese, but because Leehom was also studying chinese, she then also became excited at the thought of learning it." “后来呢？”我急着问。 "What happened afterwards?" I anxiously asked. “后来啊……”他又笑出来，“不善言词的力宏，就为她写了一首歌。你听过那首Last Night吗？就是力宏为它写的……”，他随即像吟咏一首情事诗那样轻轻念出来：“Last night I watched you sleep as you lay there. I dropped down to my knees and said a prayer. I leaned over softly to kiss your beautiful face. "Afterwards......" He smiled again, "Leehom, who wasn't good at expressing himself verbally, decided to write a song for her. Have you heard his song 'Last Night'? Leehom wrote this song for her......", He immediately recited aloud, gently, as though he were reciting a love poem, "Last night I watched you sleep as you lay there. I dropped down to my knees and said a prayer. I leaned over softly to kiss your beautiful face. But I could not cross the ocean of your grace." “Last Night也是我最爱力宏的创作之一！”我兴奋的说。我分享了当我第一次听见这首歌，脑海中浮现的那个深刻的画面：一个羞涩的纯情男孩，看着深深仰慕的的女孩，在月光下沉沉入睡的面孔，只敢俯身在她的额头轻轻一吻，然后跪在她的身旁，向上帝说出心中对她的感觉――只有亲身经历过那种感受，才能写出那股纯情，却欲言又止的文字吧！ "Last Night is also my most favourite song that Leehom has ever composed!" I said excitedly. I shared with him this profound image that would appear in my mind when I first listened to this song: A shy, innocent guy, admiring the girl's face, as she falls asleep under the moonlight, only daring to bend down and gently kiss her forehead, and then kneeling beside her, would express to God the feelings he felt for her - - Only if you have experienced this feeling in real life, can you write such innocent lyrics, where the words will start to speak but hesitate, to you." “我相信这首歌一定打动了她的心吧？”我说。 "The song must've moved her heart, right?" I said. “其实他们对彼此都有好感，白天选一样的课，晚上又一起做功课，很自然就变成了好朋友。像力宏的‘在每一秒里，都想见到你'和‘As long as I have you'都是写给她的啊！”他突然雀跃起来，“你对力宏的歌熟悉吗？他的感情故事，其实都写在他的歌里了！” "They actually already had good feelings for each other, they chose the same classes in the day, at ngiht, they would do homework together, and naturally they became really good friends. Leehom's 'Zai Mei Yi Miao Li, Dou Xiang Jian Dao Ni' and 'As long as I have you' were both written for her!" He suddenly jumped up, "Do you know Leehom's songs well? All his stories about his love and feelings, are actually written into his own songs!" 我听过很多力宏的歌，那些深情而真挚的作品，却不知道，原来都是力宏自己深刻的故事啊。 I've listened to many of Leehom's song, the emotional and sincere[impassioned] works, but I never knew, that these were actually Leehom's own heartfelt experiences and stories. “力宏大二那年暑假，是他们交往后的第一次分开。力宏的‘Dream again'写的就是他们相隔两地的深深思念。” "The summer holidays of Leehom's second year in college, was the first time they'd been seperated, since they started going out. Written in Leehom's 'Dream Again' is the feelings of how much they missed each other as they were separated in two different countries." “I have not seen my Baby in so long .But I can feel her in this song…” I have not seen my Baby in so long .But I can feel her in this song 他唱了起来，这一次，我的心也跟上了那首歌的节拍，随着回忆，我仿佛也走进了一条歌的时光隧道…… As he sang, this time, my heart followed with the song's beat, along the memories, as if I had entered the song's time tunnel......" “但是真正的爱情，应该是经得起考验的”我说。 "But real love, should be able to withstand these tests." I said “恩。其实那时候是没什么问题的。96年暑假，力宏在台湾发的那一张专集，突然让他红了起来，唱片公司为了培植他，寒假又把召回台湾去发行‘好想你'――那年冬天的感恩节他在台湾录音，圣诞节和新年又要回台湾宣传，所以那年的暑假和寒假，力宏都没有办法陪在她身边。” "Yeh. There wasn't acutally any problem during this time. In the summer holidays of 96', the album Leehom released in Taiwan suddenly made him popular, so the record company decided to make him come back in the winter holidays to promote it, so as to build his popularity. 'Hao Xiang Ni' - He spent that year's thanksgiving in Taiwan recording, and had to spend Christmas and New Year's in Taiwan promoting. So then, Leehom couldn't spend any of that year's summer or winter holidays with her." “她很介意吗？”我问。 "Did she really mind?" I asked. “她虽然心里不高兴，但每次力宏从台湾回到学校，他们就又和好如了。” "Even though she was not happy inside, each time Leehom came back to school from Taiwan, they'd still make up and be all good again." 他突然想起来什么，继续说：“但是97年的暑假，她的确发了一顿脾气因为那年暑假也是她的毕业旅行，他们毕业班的同学约好去欧洲旅行，她当然非常希望力宏能陪她去，我们都知道力宏也很想陪她去，他试着跟唱片公司请假，但没有被批准。我们这伙好朋友，虽然是三年级的学生，在那年暑假也都跟着那班毕业生一起到欧洲玩了一趟。力宏一个人到台湾去工作。我们都知道力宏其实非常想跟我们一起到欧洲去玩，但是他不得不一个人到台湾去工作。” He suddenly thought of something, and continued to speak: "But in the summer holiday's of 97', she had an outburst, because she was going to go on a holiday to celebrate graudation. Her fellow graduating classmates had planned a trip to Europe, and of course, she really wanted Leehom to go with her, and we knew that Leehom also really wanted to go with her too. He tried to ask his record company for a holiday leave, but they wouldn't allow it. Even though we were only third year college students, us group of friends also went along to Europe with the graduating students to have fun, while Leehom stayed in Taiwan, alone, working. We all knew that Leehom really wanted to come with us to Europe, but he was forced to stay in Taiwan, by himself, and work. 我想着那种心情……，却不得不承认，如果我是唱片公司的老板，应该也不会批准那张请假单――因为一张唱片从制作，企划到宣传，短短三个月的时间，都几乎不够用了，怎么可能还会让歌手请假呢？ I thought of that kind of mood......., and I couldn't not admit that, if I was the record companies boss, I probably wouldn't have permitted the holiday leave application - - Because the production of an album, from producing to promotion, is all in a short period of three months, which is almost not even enough, how could there be the possibility that I would still let the singer take holiday leave? “你们的欧洲之行，一定很开心吧。”我说，那么美丽的地方。 "During the trip to Europe, you guys must've been so happy." I said, since there's so many beautiful places there. “是很好玩啊！虽然我们在旅途中有时候，觉得她并不是玩的很开心，因为她无法接受力宏把事业看得比她重要。但那场旅行结束后，她还是又回到了Williams。” "It was really fun! Even though during the trip, there were times where I could feel that she was really unhappy, because she could not accept the fact that Leehom put work in a more important position then her. But when the holiday ended, she still went back to Williams." “所以她还是爱力宏的。”我松了一口气说。 "So then she still loves Leehom." I let out a sigh of relief. “是啊！虽然她是学商的，但毕业后她也没有到大城市去工作，反而选择了留在Williams这个小城市工作，就是为了能和力宏在一起。” "Yes! Even though she studied business, she still didn't leave to work in the big cities after she graduated, but instead, she chose to stay in the town of Williams to work, so that she could be with Leehom." “那不是很好吗？”我不解地问。 "Isn't that very good then?" I continued to ask. “是好，也是不好。因为暑假结束力宏从台湾回来，就立刻日以继夜地开始毕业论文的编写。那时我们都是大四的学生，功课很忙，并不觉得有什么异样，但是她已经毕业了，白天上班，晚上下班后没什么事情，当然希望力宏能多陪陪她。” "It was good and not good in a way. Because once these summer holidays ended, Leehom returned from Taiwan, and went straight to beginning to write and plan his graduation thesis. At that time, we were fourth year college students and had alot of homework. We didn't think it would be any different, but she had already graduated. In the day she'd work, but in the evenings she had nothing to do, and consequently, she certaintly hoped Leehom would accompany her." “问题就是那个时候开始的？”我有一种悲伤的预感。 "The problem started during this period of time?" I felt a kind of sad apprehension. “多少是吧！我们那时候每天回到宿舍，都会到力宏的房间，听听〕他那天又创作了什么新音乐，一开始都还会看到她，后来就越来越少遇见她了春天的时候，就听说她在大城市找到新工作，离开了Williams。” "More or less! Each day we'd go back to our dormitories, and we'd all go into Leehom's room, to listen to what kind of new music he had composed during that day. In the beginning we would see her, but time went on, we saw her less and less, and in spring, we heard that she had found a new job in the city and was leaving Williams." “力宏一定很难过。”我说。 "Leehom must have felt really bad." I said. “其实当时力宏觉得还好，因为他对这段感情有信心，他是一个专一而死心塌地的人，他们每天都会通上两三次电话，力宏那这段感情看得很长远，他觉得她到大城市，在大公司里有更好的发展，他是学商的，他不应该将她牵绊她在Williams这个小城。”然后他又忍不住叹了口气，“但是力宏四月份在学校做的四场毕业论文公演，她一场都没有来。我知道力宏很失望，因为他的毕业论文，起码有一半以上，都是为她而写的。”他突然停下来问我：“你知道力宏毕业论文的内容吗？” "Actually, at the time, Leehom felt that it would still be good, because he had confidence in this relationship.. he was devoted, one and only, to her. Each day they would speak two, three times on the phone, Leehom had even looked into the long term, and felt that she would have more chances of development/promotion, working in the large companies in the city. She studied business and he didn't want to tie her down in the small town of Williams." “我知道。”我若有所思地回答，我问个力宏那个问题――那是力宏口中 "I know. " I pensively replied. I had already asked Leehom that question - - This came from Leehom. “97年从台湾回到学校时的心中感触”，而那出百老汇舞台剧，说的是一个偶像歌手和爱情的故事。 "Feelings from the heart when I had returned from Taiwan to college in 97'.", in this Broadway musical, was a story about a idol singer and his love. “当力宏的毕业论文舞台剧‘The Bite That Burns'获得空前的成功在最后一场演出的庆功宴上，大家都好兴奋，好开心，只有力宏却怅然若失着……，我们知道他多么希望她的出现，来分享他的成功和喜悦，而她终于还是缺席了……，我们都为力宏感到心疼。” "Leehom's graduation thesis, musical 'The Bite That Burns' obtained unprecedented success after the final performance, and during the celebration feast, everyone was very excited and really happy. Only Leehom was doleful and dejected......., We knew that he really wanted her to come, so he could share his success and joy, but in the end, she never came......, We all felt broken-hearted for Leehom." “感情的事，局外人总是陪着难过，却很难判断对与错啊。”我说。 "Love problems/matters..... outsiders can only accompany in sharing the pain, but it is still hard for us to know who/what was right or wrong." I said. “我知道她在离开Williams时，曾让力宏在她和音乐之间作一个选择，力宏不是那种花言巧语或口是心非的人，他说他爱她和爱音乐一样，都是长远而永恒……，他没有办法选择其一，或者放弃任何一个。” "I know when she was leaving Williams, she once asked Leehom to choose between her or music, Leehom isn't one of those who are dishonest/decietful and speak sweetened words, he said she loved her and music equally, both were long-term and eternal......, he could not choose one, or let go of one." “这个不会说话的傻瓜啊。”我扼腕地说。同时也想到当时的力宏，身兼学生和歌手的双重身份，如此分身乏术的满载状态……，有许多歌手就先放弃学业了，而力宏不但完成了学业，还交出了一张漂亮的成绩单，但又有谁知道他曾在背后做过如此大的牺牲呢？ "This fool that cannot speak/express himself properly." I said, grapsing my wrist. At the same time, I thought what Leehom must've felt then, being both a student and singer, he'd have been doing several things at the same time and must've been loaded with work......., many singers decide to give up on their studies, however, Leehom not only finished his formal education, but he also handed over an excellent school report as well. But who would know that behind the scenes, Leehom had made such a big scarifice. “那场恋爱就怎么结束了吗？”我问。 "How did this romance end?" I asked. “我想那时他们彼此还是不愿意放弃这段感情吧。两个人都似乎还在努力着，1998年我们毕业后，大家各奔前程。那年暑假力宏回到台湾发片，然后九月到Boston的Berklee音乐学院进修。我们那一伙好朋友，有好几个都在Boston找到工作，搬到那里去了而我则是到了纽约。1999年我到Boston去看那群朋友，我们那伙好朋友相约到在力宏的公寓相聚，无意中问起力宏的爱情――他没有多说，只是从电脑的文件里点出这首歌‘Mary Says'……” "I think at that time, neither of them wanted to give up on their love and relationship. Both seemed like they were trying their best, in 1998, after we graduated, we all moved on, and headed off on our own roads. That summer holiday, Leehom went back to Taiwan to release his album and in September, he went to Boston's Berklee College of Music to continue his studies. Amongst us group of good friends, a few of us had also found jobs in Boston and had moved there, but I went to New York. In 1999, I went to Boston to visit them, and we met up at Leehom's apartment. We unintentionally got to the topic of Leehom's love life - - He didn't say anything, only played the song 'Mary Says' from the files off his computer......." "How long has it been since I held near? How long will it be till I have you right here? You say that it hurts I can't disagree But how can I hold on to someone who's leaving me" "How long has it been since I held near? How long will it be till I have you right here? You say that it hurts I can't disagree But how can I hold on to someone who's leaving me" “我们听着那首歌,懂了那颗受伤的心,气氛一下子凝重起来,真的很替他们难过.倒是力宏反过来安慰我们,他说他觉得她一定会回到他身边的。虽然当时力宏已经知道，在另一个城市的她，以近有了一个热烈的追求者了……” "As we listened to the song, we understood his broken, hurt heart, the atmosphere immediately became heavy, we really felt bad for them. But in turn, it was Leehom who then comforted us, saying that he felt she would definitely came back to his side. Even though Leehom knew, that she , who lived in another city, had recently had an eager pursuer after her......." “力宏的哥哥结婚时，婚礼是在密西根的女方家举行，很多Rochester的朋友都未能参加那个婚礼，但却送了厚礼。1999年王家为了答谢朋友的盛情，于是在Rochester设宴款待朋友，我们这群朋友都收到邀请函。我打电话跟力宏说我一定会到，顺便问他还有哪些同学和朋友会来。力宏很愉快地提到了她的名字，‘真的吗？'我好高兴她也会来。‘当然是真的！'力宏热切地说。‘她说她已经买好机票，到时会告诉我班机时间，一定要我到机场去接她噢。'力宏好开心地回答我。” "When Leehom's elder brother got married, the wedding was held in Michigan, where the bride's family lived. Many friend's from Rochester could not attend the wedding, but still sent generous gifts. In 1999, the Wang family wanted to thank all the friend's great kindness, and decided to hold a reception in Rochester for them, us group of friends also recieved invitations. I rang to tell Leehom that I would be going for sure, I conveniently asked which other schoolmates and friends would be attending. Leehom happily said her name, 'Really?' I was very excited that she'd be coming. 'Of course it's true!' Leehom said enthusiastically. 'She said she already bought the plane ticket, and will tell me her plane arrival time when she knows, and said that I have to go to the airport to meet her.' Leehom very happily told me." 我听着，心中也一阵喜悦，真好。 When I heard this, I felt a moment of joy in my heart, it was really good. “婚宴那天，我们一伙全到了，走进大厅的门，看见一张好漂亮的桌子，上面放满了鲜花和每一位受邀客人的‘名卡'——‘名卡'上除了受邀宾客的名字，还注明了那位宾客的被安排的桌号和座位。我们这群人当然被贴心地安排在同一桌。从喜宴开始，到宾客们一一离去，我们那桌却始终空着一个位置……，那是她的位置，而她迟迟没有出现。宴会的过程，力宏都在帮着爸妈和哥哥，嫂嫂照顾客人，但我注意到他不时望向大门的眼神。虽然她在喜宴前几天突然‘不见了'，电话或E-mail都联络不到她，力宏心中多么盼望她会突然出现，给他一个大惊喜！但力宏毕竟还是失望了……” "On the day of the wedding reception, our whole group of friends arrived, and went through the doors to the great hall. We saw a beautiful table that was decorated with many fresh flowers and each guest's 'name card' -- Apart from the guest's name, the 'name card' also had the table number and seat information on it. Us group of friends were specially arranged to sit on the same table. From when the wedding reception began, till the end when guests departed, there had been an empty spot on our table......., this was her spot, she never appeared. During the reception, Leehom was busy helping his parents, big brother and sister-in-law taking care of the guests, but I noticed his gaze when he frequently glanced at the great halls doors. Even though a few days before the reception, she had suddenly 'disappeared', she couldn't be contacted by phone or email, Leehom still really hoped that she'd suddenly appear and give him a big surprise! But in the end, Leehom was to be disappointed." “吃完饭，有些宾客开始热烈地跳舞，我无意中经过那张放着‘名卡'的桌子，桌子上只剩下孤零零的那一张，在一簇簇美丽的花束中——那是她的名字。力宏就站在那张桌子旁，若有所思地看着那张桌子，完全没有注意到我的存在。” "After dinner finished, some guests began dancing enthusiastically, I unintentionally walked pass the 'name card' table. There was only one lonely name card left on the table amongst the beautiful flower bunch-- it was her name. Leehom stood beside the table, staring pensively at it, completely oblivious to my existence next to him." “‘那她一定是临时有事，所以不能来。'我只能如此安慰力宏。然后轻轻拍了他的肩膀，很难再说什么。‘我想也是。'力宏拿起那张‘名卡'放进西装口袋，轻声地说，在那刹那我感觉到了他的脆弱……。” " 'Something must have suddenly came up, that's why she couldn't come.' I could only comfort Leehom this way. I then lightly patted his shoulder, and couldn't think of anything else to say. 'I also thought that. ' Leehom said feebly, as he took up the 'name card' and placed it in the pocket of his suit. At this moment, I could feel his weakness......" “真痴情。”我说。 "He is a really attached lover." I said. “是啊！他还痴情地抱着希望，虽然知道她已经接受了另一个人的爱，却还是盼望她会回到他身边。”他同意我的感叹，接着说：“在2000年的专集里，当我们听到‘告诉我你还爱谁'这首歌时，就知道他们的爱情，已经无法挽回了……。更让我觉得难过的是跟这首歌并存在同一张专集里的那首‘永远的第一天'——他还梦想着会去机场接她的那一刻，而那一天将会是永远的第一天……” "Yes! He was so attached that he still hugged onto that hopefulness that she would come back to his side, even though he knew she had already accepted love from someone else." He agreed to my sighs, and said: "In his 2000 album, once I heard the song 'Gao Shu Wo Ni Hai Ai Shei', I realised that there was no way their love could be saved....... But what made me really feel bad was another song on the same album 'Yong Yuan De Di Yi Tian' -- He still dreamt of that moment, of going to the airport and meeting her, and how that day would be forever's first day......." 我听着他的描述，说不出话来，心中有什么东西正在纠结着……。故事似乎完结了。而思念呢？却仿佛还在绵延前进…… I listened to his discription, and couldn't say anthing, there was something in my heart intertwining...... The story seemed to have ended, but what about the feelings of missing a person? Those feelings had only continued to grow..... “2001年的‘唯一'，在那个清晨醒来，然后独自漫步的沙滩，‘是否一颗星星变了心，从前的愿望也全部被抛弃。最近我无法呼吸，连自己的影子都想逃避。BABY你就是我的唯一，两个世界都变心，回去谈何容易？'力宏就像写出了他还留在沙滩上的脚印，还留在生命中的那些怀念和不舍，直到当时还无法释怀的深情……”他叹口气说。 "In 2001's 'Wei Yi', after awakening that morning and then taking a stroll on the sandy beach, 'Has a star changed its heart, the desires from before have all been abandoned. Recently, I've been finding it hard to breathe, I even want to avoid my own shadows. Baby, you are my only one, both worlds have changed heart, going back is easier said then done' It is like Leehom was writing about his footprints that were left on the sandy beach, still keeping in his life, the fond memories and not letting go, to the point he was not able to get over his emotions in his desolation......"He sighed and said. “我知道力宏从来没有怪过她，在许多事情上，他其实是非常呵护，为她着想的，他认为自己没有足够的时间陪她，但只要有真心和诚意来弥补，一定可以感到她。他认为长久的爱情，是真心付出和心灵的分享。只可惜事与愿违……，我们都为他们遗憾，因为她其实还爱着他的，只是她没有办法接受一个经常不在她身边的男朋友啊，我也因此明白，在力宏心中，两个人不等于我们的感慨。”他说。 "I know Leehom never blamed her, during many incidents, he was actually very protective, always considerate of her feelings. He believed that he did not spend enough time with her, but he could make up for this, as long as he showed he truly loved her and was sincere, then she would definietly be touched. He believed that long relationships, are shared/enjoyed by the mind through giving your heart out, truly. Only too bad it didn't happen this time......we also felt regret for them, because she actually still loved him, but she just couldn't accept a boyfriend that would often not be by her side, and from this, I understood, in Leehom's heart, the feelings of 'Liang Ge Ren Bu Deng Yu Wo Men'." He said. 那是我极爱的一首歌，在“空屋子里没有回声，但我记忆有你指纹。我加上你，两个人不等于我们……”，在第一次听这首歌时，曾经心酸得留下眼泪。 I extremely liked that song, "In the empty room there is no sound of replies, but your fingerprints are in my memory. Me and you, two people don't equal us......", the first time I listened to it, my heart felt so wretched I cried. “‘毕竟只是太短的爱，彼此终于回到陌生。'——直到听见这首歌，我知道力宏终于把这段感情放下了……，化成一种平静和沉淀，成为那首跟大家分享一种历程的歌。”他说。 "'After all it was only too short a love, finally we both returned to being strangers'" --After I heard this song, I finally knew that Leehom had let go of this love......, turning into a kind of tranquility and quiescence, becoming this song with an experience, to be shared and listened by all. " He said. “我们都在那首歌里，听见自己的故事。”我说，有太多的感触。 "In this song, we can also hear our own stories." I said, it really was so touching. “没有那场心痛而真实的恋爱，就没有这些动人的歌。”——我 本来想这么说，有咽了下去。 "If there wasn't this real and heartbreaking love experience , then there wouldn't be such a touching song."--I originally wanted to say this, but then gulped it down. 试练和创作，创作人永远的因与果，而什么是因，什么是果？命运经常的事与愿违，我们除了微笑，学习承受——如果在当时我们可以选择，那我们一定宁可要求一场完美的结果。 Trying/practice and creating, will always be a composer's reason and product, and what is reason itself, what is the product itself? Destiny frequently works in contrary to what is expected, apart from smiling, we should learn to accept-- If we were always given the right to choose, then why would we have needed to pray for a perfect result. 而命运却总有一些我们很难再回去的是呵。 Destiny will always create some things that are very difficult for us to go back to again. 这些歌的意义于是在此时升华，不单单是给予听歌者的感动，更珍贵的是多年后的力宏——习惯用歌说话的人，一定也是用歌听话的……，那段弥足珍贵的爱情，原来不是创作人的因或果，而是最诚恳的见证。我们也愿意跟着再拿出来，细细回味…… The significance in these songs are sublimated at this time, not soley is it to touch the listener, but even more precious is the Leehom after so many years-- a person used to speaking through songs, certaintly also uses songs to listen and hear......, this worthwhile and precious love, is in fact, not the composer's reason or product, but is the sincere proof. And we are willing to follow and take it out again, to carefully reminisce. 原来每首歌都拥有美好和祝福的成分 In fact, each song has its own elements of both happiness and blessings.

成功白领需要＂十商＂

１.德商（ＭＱ）：指一个人的道德人格品质．德商的内容包括体贴，尊重，容忍，宽容，诚实，负责，平和，忠心，礼貌，幽默等各种美德．

２.智商（ＩＱ）：是一种表示人智力高低的数量指标．也可以表现为一个人对知识的掌握程度，反映人的观察力，记忆力，思维力，想象力，创造力以及分析问题和解决问题的能力．

３.情商（ＥＱ）：指管理自己的情绪和处理人际关系的能力．

４.逆商（ＡＱ）：指面对逆境承受压力的能力，或承受失败和挫折的能力．

５.胆商（ＤＱ）：是一个人胆量，胆识，胆略的度量，体现了一种冒险精神．胆商高的人能够把握机会，凡是成功的商人，政客，都具有非凡的胆略和魄力．

６.财商（ＦＱ）：指理财能力，特别是投资收益能力．财商是一个人最需要的能力，但往往会被人们忽略．

７.心商（ＭＱ）：就是维持心理健康，缓解心理压力，保持良好心理状况和活力的能力．心商的高低，直接决定了人生过程的苦乐，主宰人生命运的成功．

８.志商（ＷＱ）：指一个人的意志品质水平，包括坚韧性，目的性，果断性，自制力等方面．

９.灵商（ＳＱ）：就是对事物本质的顿悟能力和知觉思维能力．

１０．健商（ＨＱ）：是指个人所具有的健康意识，健康知识和健康能力的反映．